You Are Your Own Rescue: A Letter to Single Moms Struggling to Make Ends Meet

Dear Mayberry,

I want you to take a deep breath. Right now, in this moment, I want you to give yourself credit for everything you've done and everything you're still doing. Being a single mom is one of the toughest jobs in the world, and yet here you are, facing each day with courage and determination.

I know the weight you're carrying feels unbearable at times. I've been there. I've stood in your shoes, feeling the weight of responsibility pressing down on me, wondering how I would make it through another day. But let me tell you something I wish someone had told me back then: you are stronger than you think.

It's okay to feel defeated. It's okay to feel like you're barely keeping your head above water. But what's not okay is believing that you're alone in this. You're not. There's a whole community of moms out there who understand exactly what you're going through.

When you reach out for help, you're not admitting weakness. You're showing strength. It takes courage to ask for support, but it's also a necessary step in taking care of yourself and your children. So don't hesitate to lean on those around you, whether it's friends, family, or community resources like the neighborhood pantry you mentioned.

I know it may not feel like it right now, but you are doing an incredible job. Every meal you put on the table, every bedtime story you read, every hug you give is a testament to your love and dedication as a mother. And while it may not always be easy, know that your efforts are not going unnoticed.

Remember, you are your own rescue. You have within you the strength and resilience to overcome any obstacle that comes your way. And even on the darkest days, there is always a glimmer of hope to hold onto.

So keep pushing forward, one step at a time. Take care of yourself as much as you take care of your children. And know that you are not alone in this journey.

Sending prayers your way,

Mommy Ice

From the Philippines <3